5 Steps to Winning a Fight!

Has an offense put you in a state of disappointment for days, months, or years? The offense can paralyze you to the point of consuming your thoughts and depletes your energy to not focus on what matter. What matter is you Living Your Purpose. Yes you! You were born with a purpose to live. You are valuable. You have unlimited potential.

Your purpose involves serving others, but you must put yourself first to live the life yow were created for. The big picture is Living Your Purpose. You were not created to submit your life to circumstances, facts, and influences that work against you. An offense works against you when you give it your time, energy, thoughts, and emotions. Overall, your focus.

Living Your Purpose puts you in position to not allow offenses to paralyze you. Your purpose propels you forward to live the life you were created to experience. You avoid drifting to issues that don't matter. How do you overcome an offense? The following steps will help you overcome an offense:

1. Choose Peace. Peace removes your mind, will, and emotions from the offense. Peace leads you to silence to create space for you to learn from the offense. You will be able to identify how the offender actions are interfering with your purpose. The awareness on how to handle the matter comes from your peace. Your peace will let you know if you need to address the offenders.

2. Forgive the person or people who offended you. Forgiveness removes you from anger, bitterness, and motives to plan or act out revenge toward the offenders. Forgiveness allows the offense to work out in your favor.

3. Reflect. Think and write down what you learned from the situation. Identify how you will guard your heart in the future. You cannot the offender, but you can position yourself to not allow their actions to distract you from your purpose.

4. Set Boundaries. You may have to continue relationships with the offenders, but boundaries will allow you to tailor your interaction with them in the future. You may have to stop sharing your ideas or plans. Make a commitment to the boundaries you set.

5. Move Forward. Move forward with living your purpose. Identify actions you can take to move in the direction of living your purpose. Moving forward includes being in the moment to take care of daily tasks while focusing on the life you were created for.

Overcoming offenses is vital to Living Your Purpose. Living Your Purpose involves movement more than emotions. Staying offended produces toxic emotions that stop the movement of Living Your Purpose. You have a right to experience the life you were created for.

How will you Live Your Purpose? How will you move forward?

Tulani Person is a wife, mother, and entrepreneur who empowers purpose driven achievers to maximize their value through their talent, image and influence. Her focus is to inspire people to grow into their potential while living their purpose. As a life strategist and empowerment speaker, she serves clients with engaging methods to establish a mental map for their beliefs, vision, knowledge and applying life principles to create a journey for life transformation.

The Living Your Purpose program help individuals discover their purpose and establish a lifestyle of purpose. Tulani Person is available for individual and group coaching, workshops, team trainings, lunch n learns, conferences, and keynote speaking.

For free consultation or to book Tulani Person, please visit iamtulaniperson.com

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